Sincerely, nowadays many men overcomplicate things, and that’s why they still struggle with getting — and keeping — women.
There is one simple rule that can make your dating life far easier.
Always keep dating simple.
It sounds almost too basic, but if you pay attention, you’ll realize that most problems men face in dating come from overthinking situations that were originally simple.
The Problem: Men Overthink Dating
These days, many guys treat dating like a complicated strategy game.
We analyze everything, second-guess anything, and overwhelm ourselves.
We Overthink the perfect text, over-rehearse what to say before approaching a girl, and even try to impress girls with money, status, and confidence that you don’t even have.
To excel in dating, there are these 5 golden tips that actually make dating easy:
Be You
One mistake many of us make is not being ourselves (asin trying to be someone else)
You’re not bill gates, yet you throw money around.
You’re average, yet you try so hard to project some fake confidence.
You know…… just drop the act.
Fine, you want to appear cool, but the fact is you’ll never be as cool pretending as you’ll be being yourself.
Being yourself is a superpower.
Truly being yourself and rejecting anything that’s not “just that”…….. it makes you feel like a god.
Keep Things Stupid Simple.
The clearest of things are usually those without clutter, and not those adorned with excesses.
The simpler you keep things with a girl, the simpler it gets. It Works it will work, and it simply won’t work if it won’t.
But Complicating everything?? It just keeps the cycle of mess much longer. It keeps you sad and wondering if it’s all worth it.
Resesrch has shown that the guys that pulls the most women are just the guys who keep dating simple.
Note, Simple is not the same as nice or easygoing, they might be tough, calm or whatever, but they don’t just work with simplicity.
These Guys see a girl they like, they say hi, they start a conversation, they express interest naturally.
And somehow, it works.
No complicated tactics. No overthinking.
Meanwhile, the guys trying to apply ten different “dating strategies” often freeze at the most basic moments.
Rid Yourself Of Hesitation
You have this big feeling of saying hello, or touching someone, or showing interest, but something in you just draws you back, that’s hesitation
Many times, the ground is even set, she gives you signs, she smiles, she made approaching her easy, but……..
That ‘but’ is what you should try to get rid of.
You won’t get girls if you dont approac or talk to girls. It’s as simple as that.
Hesitation has ruined more chances at a great relationship than many things ever will.
Ladies Bluff, Don’t be moved.
One rule men who actually pulls women follow is not paying too much attention to women’s bluff.
Of course, Acknowledge their feelings, bluffs and all, but don’t let it move you. If you let it get to you, you’ll just find yourself constantly swinging like a pendulum bulb.
Women are emotional beings, and research has shown that some of them can’t manage how they feel or how they react to their feelings.
Now imagine you reacting to her every reaction…….
One of my close guys once said, ‘treat girls like kids and you won’t have problems.’The same way you pet a crying son, without actually letting it get to you………. it works like magic.
You care, it moves you, but you don’t lose sleep.
I’ll conclude by saying this:
Dating is not Black or white, it’s more like gray.
But buy keeping things simple, being natural, laxing on hesitation and not letting women draw you into their personal drama, there are great chances you’ll win.
P.S- Don’t forget, this is from my point of view (from researches, personal experiences, and life happenings)
So if you have differing opinions, I’ll really love to hear from you. No one is above some re-learning.